A number of days ago, I got an e-mail from MILF pornstar Brenda James thanking me for the coverage on MILFGazette.  One thing lead to another and she agreed to be interviewed.  Without further ado, I am to proud to present to you part one of my conversation with Brenda.
 

photo: BrendaJamesXXX.com

MG:  Hi Brenda.  Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions today.  You are relatively new to the adult industry but you are not your typical newcomer because you entered the business later than most.  Why did you wait instead of jumping in when you were 18 or so?

Brenda James:  I was asked to be in Playboy when I was about 18.  I said yes, but my mother caught wind of my intentions and just about had a coronary. So I didn't do it.  Since then I have just been a mainstream model.  I wish I would have done Playboy. However, if I had gone down that path I might not have my children and they are my world.

MG:  Did you struggle with your decision? 

Brenda James:  At first, and still a little.  Yes.  I only worry about future difficulties for my family when it comes to dealing with complicated moral questions that may arise.

MG:  What makes being a adult actress a good job for you?

Brenda James:  The flexibility, is a must have. I enjoy traveling as well so that is not a problem either. I get paid to exercise ...Yaa for that!  Most of all , I really enjoy being in front of a camera.  I will work for hours on end to ensure the right shots are done.

MG:  It's not proper to ask a woman her age but then I've never been accused of being proper.  Would you tell me how old you are?

Brenda James:  I am 37 . I look and feel better now than I did when I was 29.

MG:  There is a mainstream actress with the name Brenda James.  Has this caused any confusion yet?  How did you come up with your adult name?

Brenda:  No confusion yet.  I would like to be confused though, and get a role in a horror movie. Becoming a  "B movie star"  would put me on cloud nine!  The name selection is a funny one.  The second time I ran into my boyfriend he said "Brenda, right"?  I was pissed and snapped back at him with my legal name.  We have since used  Brenda as a pet name.  It is nice to blame Brenda for things on occasion. ;-)  For the last name. I said if I am going into this business, so are you buddy. So I chose his first name (James)  as my last name.  Hence Brenda James was born.

MG:  You've only done a few shoots and the feedback has been tremendous.   The  number of hits I am getting on my website just for you is incredible.  What do you account for your sudden popularity?

Brenda James:  Perhaps the new DVD cover for Cheating Housewives Vol. 5, MILFHunter, and the latest SeducedByACougar scene have helped me out. They all came out very close together. They are some of my favorites to date as well.  I have not seen the C.H.5 scene yet. It is an anal  scene, and I was exhausted at the end so that's usually a good sign.

MG:  What have been the highlights for you thus far?

Brenda James:  I can't believe how lucky I am.  I get to work naked! I get to do young hot guys (sometimes two)!  My age can be a benefit.  I get paid to fuck!  I get my make-up done by a pro.  I get to buy hot lingerie.  Sometimes I get great food. (NaughtyAmerica is awesome)  I get to travel!  My life is becoming everything I've ever wanted.  I hope it continues to get better.  My only complaints is that my ex is still, (after 3 years) a constant pain in the ass!

MG:  To date I've seen you in SeducedByACougar and MILFHunter.  What else do you have coming out?

Brenda James:  My FirstSexTeacher scene for NaughtyAmerica.  MyFriendsHotMom (NA) should be out soon, Cheating Housewives 5, SharingMywife.com (new sister site).  I believe that is it right now. I will be working on more films come mid January however.

MG:  Are you bi-sexual? Do you enjoy being with women and will you do scenes with women?

Brenda James:  I used to dream about women all the time for the last 15 years.  I prefer to be with a man, but I would give a HOT woman a shot for sure! I have been with a woman before, but that was a long time ago.  I will definitely want to do GG scenes for my web site.  I will just need some coaching ! :-)

MG:  So far I've seen you in scenes with just one man.  Will you do scenes with two or more men?

Brenda James:  There is a BBG scene on www.hotwivesandgirlfriends.com.  I will absolutely do more BBG scenes.  I totally get off when I am the center of all that sexual attention!

MG:  What's your the preference for the type of scene you shoot?

Brenda James:  I like the basic BG, BBG scenes.  I like giving BJ's as well.  I like location shoots. I want to do some exotic beach scenes. That would be really fun for me.

MG: Do you have a husband or boyfriend?  Is he supportive of your career choice?

Brenda James:  Yes, a boyfriend of  2 years now. We are planning on getting married soon.  He is the one that really got serious about working in the adult industry.  I could never be as open as he has been, and that amazes me.  I would be a jealous, pathetic, crying mess if he was out banging other chicks!

MG:  Are you in an alternative lifestyle (i.e. swinger, polyamory, etc.) when not performing on camera?

Brenda James:  Nope, not yet anyways it might happen.  I have probably watched about 5 hrs. of porn in my life.  I am such an accidental porn "star".  That is the beauty for some, and the down side for others I guess.  To each his own...

MG:  Before porn, what was your occupation?

Brenda: Oh so many.  Mostly a home health care aid.  I worked with quadriplegics for the last 7 years.  What a humbling job.  I have learned some things from that job. It has changed my entire outlook on life.

MG:  Do you think you're exploited because you're involved in the adult industry?

Brenda James:  Other people have the gift of playing piano, other people have the gift of being able to sing.  My gift is a great body. If I need to be somewhat exploited to use my gift, than so be it.  I have love photography and film since I was a child.  I enjoy knowing people like to fantasize and get off watching me now! WOW.
That is such a turn on for me.  I never again want to go back to the menial desk job where the insecure pathetic boss uses scare tactics to get into my pants!

Part II of my interview with Brenda can be found here.